So I did what you are told never to do. I got chatting to someone and he implied he wanted to see me for sex. I agreed to meet as we managed to turn each other on. We met in a public place. I asked if we could sit down. He took hold of my hands as we talked which was reassuring. We then kissed. Then we went to his car. On they way we held hands, which seemed nice. We fooled around for a while. Then I climbed on top. It was him who then said stop! Although we were in quiet area of a car park there were people fairly close. We chatted a little. Then he said he needed to go as he was a diabetic and had to take insulin.
Our first meeting was on a Monday. We had discussed meeting at the weekend. I told a couple of other people who had messaged me I had gone on date and did not want to just unmatch them. Think they both appreciated that; one of the two unmatched me. As the weekend came nearer I realised it was me texting first. Therefore on the Friday, I purposely did not text. Nothing. Nothing into Saturday. I sent a casual text about football. Nothing.
Late on Sunday I texted
he texted back
I did not know if that meant sorry he was scared or no he had not, so I texted
‘Yes I have?”
“Ok you’ve obviously made your mind up”
“No I have not!.”
He ended up admitting a bit scared. I sent long tests he said
The entire is making me feel uncomfortable that’s all
More texts from me, nothing from him.
Wednesday, I thought I would text him and say it was my weekend off, if he wanted to meet for coffee. He sounded like may meet. Saturday texted and said fancy going for coffee. He said
“You were quiet so I thought you’d changed your mind”
“Just busy. What do you think?”
“Busy at the minute sorry”
“What you got in mind”
“Nothing elaborate, Think tonight I may see band at my local. Or just coffee. I have a thing for a few hours at 3 tomorrow.
Then Sat night he texted me.
“What you up to”
“Heading to pub”
The next morning, I texted:
‘How was your night”
“Was good and yours”
Mixed messages! He has unmatched me on tinder at some point or deleted tinder? I hate texts and this stage of dating.
Talking of hating texts, watch out for latest about my best friend.